"And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God." - Colossians 3:14-16 (ESV)
From what we see in the above passage we note that there are three things Paul called the church to: put on love, let the peace of Christ reign, and be thankful. Of course these are not three distinct events, they are, in fact, very closely tied together. How can we love without the peace of Christ unifying us as a body? How can we be thankful if we are not bound to God or to others through love? In fact, the very idea of being one body is the reason we (Christians) ought to love one another.
Think about it like this: love unites. Anger, hatred, fear, distaste, and discomfort all divide. Those things which stand opposed to love do not bring the body of Christ together, they divide us. We cannot be ruled by the peace of Christ because we are too worried about whether the man sitting across from us is dangerous, or we want to get away from the smelly bag lady who sat next to us in the pew. More than that, we are not thankful to God for bringing this brother or sister into our lives, instead we sit in judgment of them, when God shed the blood of Christ to win them.
But, being thankless not only separates us from our relationship with God, it also separates us from those around us, and it separates them from us. When we do not thank those who do good things for us, we insult them. We insult them because we do not acknowledge the time, the care, or the resources they put into doing good for us. We act as though we are deserving of that which we have received, as though somehow we earned some good gift that was given to us.
In my last post I noted that every good and perfect gift comes from above, from the Father of Lights. (James 1:17) But, James really begins that thought earlier, and the context around James 1:17 is important. In James 1:16 he says, "Do not be deceived my beloved brothers." My point being that James urges us to think about what he is saying more deeply than just saying, "okay." James really intends for us to understand that every good gift, every perfect gift, comes from God. When one of your co-workers did a favor for you, making sure you wouldn't be too overburdened, that was a gift from God. When one of your friends called you up and asked if you wanted a coffee, just so they could spend time with you, that was from God. Every good gift, every perfect gift, all of them, come from God.
It is so important to grasp this because it relates directly to what Paul says about being thankful. If every good gift comes from God, then when you disregard a favor, or when you belittle the work of someone who sacrificed for you, then you are insulting the kindness of God. Likewise, when you make light of someone trying to do good for you, even if it does not accomplish exactly what you wanted, it is not simply a slight to that person, it is an insult to God, because he is the one who gave you the gift. Such an attitude shows that you have not put on love, you are not living in the peace of Christ, and you are not thankful to God. Such an attitude shows that you have taken for granted the good things you have been given, as though you deserved them, when it is most pertinent to remember that those good things are a gift, and you have not earned any of them at all.
In addition to what being thankless says about your own life, it is also harmful to others. When you disregard the good things people do for you, or try to do for you, it places them in a position of inferiority. Instead of you showing appreciation for their kindness, now they have become mere tools, and if they perform well you give them no praise, for that was all that was expected of a good tool. This is not love for your fellow man. To be thankless is an insult to those who show love and respect for you.
But, there is one more point worth making: being thankless is a little demonstration of hell on earth. What I mean by this is, if James is true, that every good gift is from God, then in hell there will be no good gifts. There will be no friends, because there will be no kindness, because God will not motivate goodness or gentleness among those from whom he separates. So, when we are thankless, we are demonstrating to those who would do good things for us a little taste of hell. We are demonstrating the real sin that lives within every one of us when we do not thank people, or God, for the good things we receive, and, in hell, that sin will be given free reign, because there will be no common grace from God to keep it reigned in.
There is simply no excuse for Christians to forget to be thankful. We, above all people, have received great and wonderful gifts that we do not deserve. We who have trusted in the death of Christ and his resurrection as the payment for our sin, and the means of reconciliation with God, have been given a promise of eternal life with the Lord. Every good gift we receive after that ought to refresh our spirits in memory of that which we have received and make us sing the praises of God, that not only did he redeem us from hell, but he also saw fit to give us more gifts on top of that. Every generous hand, from every person, should invoke in us a deep and abiding thankfulness, for we know that our God is the one who has given this to us. In short, we should have no problem fulfilling this command from the Holy Spirit, through Paul, "And be thankful."
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